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Time flies and time heals!

  • May. 18th, 2008 at 7:25 AM
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If I were to run a search on my blog for the most commonly used word, the likelihood that it would come up with “time” is a one hundred percent. I am constantly amazed at how quickly time flies. I remember getting excited about the weekend on Friday, but it's already Sunday morning and time to get ready for the week. For that matter, it's already May. We are in 2008. Can you believe that?!

However,  only recently I am beginning to appreciate time's role as a healer for myriad of things, all the more for trivial negative emotions, such as temptations, irritability, anger and disappointments. When I find myself succumbing to the temptation of grabbing that snack from the vending machine, the saner voice in me reminds, “give it some time, if you feel the same way after an hour, go ahead and grab that snack”. Guess what? Giving that one hour did heal the temptation. Likewise, for irritability and anger. When I find myself snapping at Arvind or Atul, I give myself a time out, to remind me that all the anger or irritability will heal in few minutes but the damage inflicted from it will last longer. This realization has been powerful to me and hopefully will help me stay in tune with the bigger picture.

And then there are things like hunger which you wish healed by itself so that you don't have to rake your brain about what to cook for today. On that note, my "me" time is up, enjoy the rest of the weekend. 

Comments

[info]meethi.wordpress.com wrote:
May. 18th, 2008 05:22 pm (UTC)
Very true. Thats the first step in anger management. I also started trying that a while ago and it really works. And out there therapists teach these things and only to make us feel more angry later by having look at the bill!.
[info]zigma_an wrote:
May. 19th, 2008 09:42 am (UTC)
Meethi, I cracked up after reading your comment. How are you doing? how are things at your end?
(Anonymous) wrote:
May. 20th, 2008 03:10 am (UTC)
Hmm..I cna learn a thing or two from you..I've been trying to work on quick responses, can't say always sucessful, but definitely improved..

me too lol at the comment on the 'bill' by meethi

good week suman
shy
[info]zigma_an wrote:
May. 20th, 2008 10:19 am (UTC)
Good luck Shy! life seems to be a series of self improvement projects :-) Good week to you too.

(Anonymous) wrote:
May. 22nd, 2008 01:04 pm (UTC)
It sure does!
I've noticed this mostly with respect to my grief after Appa passed away. No matter how cliched it sounds, time does heal. I don't experience crushing grief anymore. Just the sad underlying current.
[info]zigma_an wrote:
May. 24th, 2008 09:43 am (UTC)
Re: It sure does!
I know what you mean. Time does have a way of helping us come to terms with reality. Life moves on!
(Anonymous) wrote:
May. 23rd, 2008 12:29 pm (UTC)
so very wise
...your posts are so very wise, Suman...yes time definitely heals, doesn't it?....i think i will try your trick on the vending machine next time i feel like snacking...:) thank you.
[info]zigma_an wrote:
May. 24th, 2008 09:39 am (UTC)
Re: so very wise
Really? Thanks! I think I am using this medium as a place to collect my thoughts and pen down my learnings. I have to make sure I have a back up. Who knows when this will go belly up!
(Anonymous) wrote:
May. 23rd, 2008 12:30 pm (UTC)
BTW..
...it was me, UL commenting earlier, i still have to figure out how to add my name without signing off UL, next time, may be..:)
[info]zigma_an wrote:
May. 24th, 2008 09:37 am (UTC)
Re: BTW..
UL, I think it works like in blogspot. You may want to check the Open URL option to include your blog link.

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