In this book, Nariman Vakeel, a 79 year old Parsi Widower, and a former professor, is inflicted with Parkinson's disease. To make matters worse, he breaks his ankle during one of his evening walks causing him to be bedridden and thrown at the mercy of his step children, Coomy and Jal. Coomy, the stepdaughter shares a love-hate relationship with Nariman. Love because Nariman never discriminated between his own daughter and the stepchildren and lavished affection on all of them as though they were equals. Hate because of his loyalty to his former sweetheart which she believed was the cause of her mother's death. When Nariman gets bedridden, the uglier side of her takes control and she succeeds in passing the burden of caring for her stepfather to her half-sister Roxanne. As they say, what goes around, comes around. Coomy becomes a victim to her own plot and faces a premature death. Jal is good at heart but is too coy to stand up for himself or for his stepfather. Following Coomy's death, Jal atones for his lack of convictions by sharing the ownership of his flat with Roxanne and his family reversing their financial woes. Prior to Nariman's entry into their lives, Roxanne, her husband Yezad, and children Murad and Jehangir, lead a happy life. Having to take care of an invalid person takes a toll on the family physically and financially, and Roxanne does an excellent job of caring for her father with grace while not letting it ruin their routine or things that they did as a family. Yezad initially treats Nariman with disdain but takes inspiration from Roxanne and becomes humbler as time passes. Murad and Jehanghir, my favorite characters in the novel, are way too mature for their age and their presence in the story is so refreshing and I believe is author's way of putting things in perspective. In between these stories, Mistry weaves in Bombay politics and other side stories that lends a touch of reality to the novel.
Recommendation: It was hard for me to like the book in the first few pages but unintentionally I started falling in love with the characters Roxanne and Jehanghir. Mistry beautifully depicts the dilemmas and struggles of a middle class family living in a city like Bombay. The section relating to political unrest and Shiv Sena were a drag and forced me to skip pages here and there. Nariman's flashback gave a cinematic twist to the novel and was uncalled for. I recommend this book as average for plot and above average for evolution of characters.
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Unaccustomed Earth is a collection of five short stories and a trilogy, all of which circle around the emotional struggles that the second generation of Indian Americans face in the normal course of their lives. Each of these stories examines a certain relationship, be it father-daughter, sister-brother, mother-daughter, or friend-lover, and adds a layer of complication to the relationship making the stories emotionally intensive. To relish the stories, readers must shed their prejudices and let the characters evolve on their own. There is a touch of melancholy that weaves all these stories together.
The first story, Unaccustomed Earth, is centered around the father-daughter relationship, the daughter still coping up with her mother's loss while the dad ironically feels liberated by the tragic event, and ends up falling in love with a woman that travels with him on his European trip. In Hell-Heaven, a daughter comes to terms with a break up, as she realizes how her own mom fell in love with a family friend in her youth while being married to her father. A Choice of Accommodation is the story of deteriorating marriage between a husband and wife that takes a u-turn during a weekend get away. The brother-sister relationship is captured by Only Goodness in which the brother's alcoholism threatens to jeopardize her family life. Nobody's Business is the story of deceit and one sided love. The trilogy, Hema and Kaushik, captures the story of friends-turned-lovers who choose to part ways to keep up with their spirit of independence.
Recommendation: Well written, quick read, a little stereoptyped but excellent story telling . I rate this book as above average. This is my submission for this month's edition of Thoughtful Thursdays.
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After reading Khaled Hosseini's second best book, I had my heart set on his debut, The Kite Runner. As tempting as it was, I refused to finish the book in one sitting. I savored it, word by word, line by line, reluctantly turning the pages as the novel was drawing to a close. Have you observed how following a calamity, natural or man made, the media is rife with people stories; stories that provide first hand account of what had happened and what it was like to be caught in that pandemonium. That's exactly how I look at The Kite Runner as well. As a one man's narration of how his life was influenced by the ethnic clashes in Afghanistan, and the twists and turns in the nation's political setup.
Review: Whenever an ambulance or a fire engine passes by when I am driving, my first reaction is to reach out for the Ganesha idol in my car and say a 20 second prayer. A prayer for the well being of the person who has met with the accident, and a prayer to thank God for making me and my family to be at the right place at the right time. That's the kind of reaction that this novel invoked. After reading the book, I felt awful for what the Afghans had/have to go through and wished that things changed for the better, sooner than later. Then I felt thankful for being endowed with the privilege of leading a normal life. As boring as normal can sometimes be, I am more than willing to take it any day.
Rating: Quick read, easy to follow, compelling narration, do yourself a favor by reading this book. I rate this book as outstanding.
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sleepy
I have a special liking for this book because it prompted me to write my first book review ever. I read it a few months back and reviewed it here. I rate this book as above average.
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1. Pick up the nearest book
2. Open to page 123
3. Find the fifth sentence
4. Post the next 3 sentences
5. Tag five people, and acknowledge the person who tagged you
Before I proceed, here's a confession. I would like to think that I am a book worm or a voracious reader. But between competing priorities, and looming deadlines, my daily quota of reading is confined to news (which I sometimes catch up on radio while cooking or on my way to work), blogs, Dr. Seuss, Curious George and the like! I guess this is my long winded way of saying that the nearest books are safely tugged in the comfort of our book shelf in the living room.
That being said, the “nearest” book that I have picked is “The Kite Runner” by Khaled Hosseini, which I am planning to finish within the next couple of weeks.
The three sentences beginning with the fifth sentence on page 123 say, “Well, time to go and set up.” He and Baba kissed on the cheek and he shook my hand with both of his. “Best of luck with the writing”, he said, looking me in the eye.
Spillay asked me to do this only if I think I was going to have fun. I did, and more importantly, it achieved the higher purpose of bringing the book "near" me :-) So if you think you will have fun or that this tag would serve a certain purpose, just do it!
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energetic
Food is not one of Atul's favorite subject. He eats well when he is hungry, but there is no guarantee that he would eat every single meal and snack, every single day. There have been days when he had polished his lunch and then there have been days when the very same menu came back untouched. When we raised it as a concern to Atul's pediatrician, she advised that toddlers need just one and a half full meal per day to help them stay healthy and aid their growth. We were told, as long as it averages out, he is in a good place.
Later, when I was discussing this with a friend, she recommended this book to me and I am so glad I took her advise and checked it out. The underlying theme of the book is the clear division of responsibility between parents and kids when it comes to eating. Parents are responsible for what is presented to eat and the manner in which it is presented. Children are responsible for how much and even whether they eat.
The book helped us look at Atul's eating habits in a whole new perspective. While we never took to force feeding him, we certainly thought it was our responsibility to monitor how well and how much he ate. We are slowly learning to unlearn this attitude and trust Atul to regulate the quantity of his food intake. We have some simple rules that he is expected to abide by during meal time. No watching TV or reading books while eating. No moving around during meal time. Eat while you eat, play while you play. The only snacks that will be served at home during week days will be fruits. However, he gets to choose anything for his snack time during the weekend, no questions asked. He is required to do three things after meal time - put his plate in the sink, clean himself up, drink some water.
We see a big improvement in Atul's eating behavior after following some of the simple things outlined in the book. But more importantly, the battle of wills at meal time has definitely come down over the past couple of months.
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sleepy
A close friend of mine, fondly nicknamed Atul as “Kelvi Nayagan”. Kelvi in Tamizh means question and Nayagan refers to Hero. So roughly translated, Kelvi Nayagan would imply king of questions.
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"A Thousand Splendid Suns" is the tale of a beautiful friendship that develops between two women, Mariam and Laila, fighting against the same odds - Rasheed, their husband, a male chauvinist who thinks "a woman's face is only for her husband to see", but has no qualm keeping gazillion porn pictures in his dresser. While narrating the atrocities that Mariam and Laila go through in the hands of abusive Rasheed, the author beautifully weaves the political unrest taking place in Afghanistan over a span of two generations: the onset of communist rule in Afghanistan, the collapse of the Soviet Union, and the rise and fall of the Taliban. Hosseini gives readers a flavor for the Taliban regime through the life of Laila, who for instance, had to undergo a c-section without sedation by a doctor, who according to the Taliban rules, is required to wear burqa while performing the surgery. Just when I was beginning to find the book depressing, there is a u-turn with Mariam putting an end to Rasheed's life, for which she ends up facing a death sentence. Laila leaves Kabul and marries her childhood sweetheart Tariq. Laila gets a closure when she returns to Kabul and uses Mariam's inheritance to revamp an old orphanage of which her daughter was once part of.
The book is packed with a gamut of emotions - abuse, betrayal, dreams, hopes, friendship, atrocities, love, hatred, conservatism, liberation, to name a few. I am glad that I didn't miss the opportunity to read this book.
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I borrowed Oh, the Places You'll Go! from the local library last week for Atul and it turns out that I am hooked on to it since then. One can mull and chew over the contents of this truly inspiring book for hours together.
The book beautifully illustrates how a brainy and footsy person like you can conquer mountains in life. You will live your life according to the choices you make. You will fly high and you will be the best. This, however, does not make you immune to the downs in life. When those downs do happen, it will be scary, lonely and unpleasant to overcome. Nevertheless, you will move on without too much waiting and staying. You will learn to step with care and that life is a great balancing act. And at the end of it all, you will indeed succeed (alteast 98 and 3/4 percent of the times, according to some weird statistics by the author).
I am determined to own a copy of this book. Atul will enjoy the vibrant colors and the rhyming words and I will cherish the underlying lessons.
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thoughtful
